Author: Fraya

A writer and entrepreneur with profound interest in humankind research and insights. An avid coffee drinker and book hoarder. Hours and days spent in Jakarta.
  • Mystery of Misery

    As long as I can remember I’ve fallen hard 4 to 5 times in life. Literally fell into the ground and injured. The most ancient one I can recall was falling from the stairs of my grandfather’s home when I was between 5 or maybe 7-years old. It teared the outward of my bottom lip….

  • Energy Vampire

    What do we know about Energy Vampire?  It seems to be appearing more frequently after its launch as one of the unofficial post-pandemic jargons. The thought of someone sucking your invisible energy sounded a little mystical and fictitious. Let me explain. Energy Vampire in Your Circles Is there any Energy Vampire in one of your circles?…

  • Memory Glitch

    Have you been having difficulties with memory, or simply became absentminded over everyday things? In this article we’re about to elaborate what cause a memory to glitch. From traumatic events that can cause short-term amnesia, to the thought of simple task you are planning to do just minutes ago which suddenly vanished from your mind.  In other…

  • Ticket to Humility

    Most of us wanted to be seen, recognised and appreciated for our worth in this world. Not necessarily by a large crowd,just a few important people in our small circles. Sometimes, it is hard to obtained it. That sense of being seen. We were taught to earned our existential. To convey achievements in different method,…

  • She’s a Trigger Warning

    At one mid-day I was scrolling aimlessly through X or formerly known as Twitter and found—every two scrolls, tweets with intro of TW abbreviation. Eventually I noticed that it stands for Trigger Warning, a note before a thread begins. It has been used as a label for certain distressing content or images. The term trigger warning have been…

  • Hysterical Histrionic

    In Amber Heard VS Johnny Depp’s trial 2022, a witness testifies on Amber Heard’s psychological condition. Dr.Shannon Curry, a forensic psychologist, explains thoroughly that Amber had(or has) multiple personality disorder. This is when the diagnosis term of Histrionic Personality Disorder came to be known, aside from Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)—her descriptions on BPD also mentions…

  • Unheard

    Ever misread a person for their impression of you? You would think that you finally make meaningful connections in a new community. It turns out, some of them seem odd and distant in the next following days. Or, have you noticed when someone stop listening to what you’re saying? This is what we’re going to…