Not everyone seems to “buy” the narcissist theory, let alone knowing what flying monkey is. How many are truly exist? And how many in our lives fall into the category of a narcissistic personality? By detecting the flying monkeys, can help to confirmed a person with narcissistic personality disorder in your circle. If you are…
The act of showering people with attention isn’t something new under the sun. Neither does the term “love bombing”. A little too similar with arse-kissing, it has the purpose of swaying the target into a relationship deal they never intended to sign. I woke up with eyes bloodshot at 5.20 AM and funnily, the first thing that popped up in my…
Being a good listener is a rare quality we often find nowadays, in an era where everything is about showing off what’s going on in your life on social media. There is something humane and sincere about listening intently to someone. According to Wikipedia, the act of listening involves complex affective, cognitive and behavioral processes….
There is a phenomenon popular amongst dating vocabularies, along with ghosting, cat-fishing, and others. It’s called Breadcrumbing. What was it? and why is it a nuisance in our life, particularly for those with introverted personalities. Let’s go and have a look at the definition first. Not only it is a subtle form of emotional abuse,…
Now and then, we stumbled across a case of rejection. A disappointing situation where we didn’t expect it to happened at all. Unfortunate events such as ; not being accepted at the designated school, failing a test, or being declined for a reconciliation with a specific person. All of these made us feel rejected. Feelings…
..When you were here before Couldn’t look you in the eye You’re just like an angel Your skin makes me cry You float like a feather In a beautiful world I wish I was special You’re so fuckin’ special Creep – Radiohead I was always fascinated by how amused a few people were, in…
How much positive talk is actually doing self-harm? Is toxic positivity real? Research shows it’s all a matter of timing and response. The stand of social media recently introduced us to many new behavior terms. From self-love, ghosting, body shaming, red flags, to self-boundaries, backhanded compliments, including toxic positivity. But maybe toxic positivity wasn’t that…
“If you want to overcome the whole world, overcome yourself” – Fyodor Dostoyevsky Last year, I learned a valuable lesson in overcoming myself. As I mention here, 2021 was not really kind to me. I felt struggled. At one point, I just wanted to be alone, shutting my phone and giving the middle finger to…
At the beginning of this year, I was told to clean my working space. Over the years, I have filled my workspace with small trinkets and memorabilia. A lot of postcards and sentimental notes, Lego figurines, even a retro picture. And as with all cleaning process, I need to go through all of this to…
