Some time ago, I came across a post on social media claiming that God or the universe gives us relationship intuition signs about who our soulmate will be. As I began reading through the replies, I found myself nodding along with those who agreed with this statement about these intuition signs. One person shared how her husband turned out to be a neighbor she had lived near for decades but never met until the “right moment.” Another told the story of discovering her partner had attended the same kindergarten she did—though they were never classmates—only to reunite years later when the timing was perfect. And there were countless other stories just like these.
I personally believe in this statement. In several of my previous relationships, there was always this small voice in my heart whispering, “This isn’t your place; this isn’t the right person.” Back then, whenever my inner voice spoke this way, I always ignored it. Until those relationships eventually fell apart.
Even after these experiences, I rarely thought about that inner voice. In my next relationship, we had our ups and downs like any normal couple. During the good times, I still experienced that same feeling. I would find myself imagining meeting “someone” with specific physical characteristics. These visions weren’t conscious daydreams—they typically emerged when I was drifting off to sleep or just waking up but not fully conscious yet. Somewhere between dreams and reality.
It felt absurd because I already had a partner at that time. Should I really end a relationship based on mere imagination? That small voice inside kept insisting, “It’s not this person.” But of course, I was stubborn and held on. Until… I met the person from my visions.
In my mind’s eye, this person’s face was always blurry or not detailed, but they were always smiling. Beyond that, everything matched perfectly—the color and texture of their hair, their height, skin tone, and that smile. When we first met, I didn’t immediately notice this was the same person from my visions. We talked for about a month and found we connected deeply, until finally, we decided to start a relationship. This time, my inner voice remained quiet.
When I read that social media post and reflected on my own journey, I realized that indeed, clues about our destined partners can come from anywhere—including being revealed in those dream-like visions. I only recognized it when I compared the image from my dreams with the person I’m with now, and noticed how remarkably similar they are. I felt both surprised and not, because in those visions, it somehow already felt certain that I would meet them.
Trusting Your Inner Compass
I think what fascinates me about this phenomenon is how our subconscious seems to recognize the right person before our conscious mind does. Those little whispers of “not this one” weren’t just random thoughts—they were guiding me, even when I chose not to listen.
Looking back, I realize now that my stubbornness cost me time and emotional energy. I stayed in relationships where something felt fundamentally misaligned, trying to convince myself that the feelings would pass or that I was just being too picky. But that small voice never wavered—it knew what I needed before I did.
Why do we so often ignore these intuitive signals? Perhaps it’s because they don’t present themselves with rational explanations. They’re feelings, sensations, sometimes even physical reactions that we can’t easily explain to others or even to ourselves. It’s easier to follow the logical path—to stay with someone who looks good on paper, who our friends approve of, who meets all our “requirements” on a checklist.
But love doesn’t follow checklists. It follows energy, connection, and those subtle relationship intuition signs that we can’t quite articulate.
The Universe’s Timing
What strikes me about both my story and the ones I read online is the element of divine timing. Those people who attended the same kindergarten or lived as neighbors for years didn’t connect until the moment was right. In my case, the person I envisioned didn’t appear until I was ready to recognize them.
I believe there’s wisdom in this timing. Sometimes we need to grow, to learn lessons from other relationships before we’re ready to meet the person who matches our soul’s frequency. Those previous relationships weren’t failures—they were preparation.
What’s even more fascinating is how all the relationship intuition signs came together. I met this person when we had both just moved to a new city. Honestly, this city wasn’t even my first choice. When we got to talking, I discovered they had also considered moving to the first and second cities on my list. It feels like we were supposed to meet—like the universe arranged for us to be in the same place at the same time, despite neither of us originally planning to be there.
When I finally met the person from my visions, our connection felt effortless. It wasn’t perfect (no relationship is), but it felt right in a way that’s difficult to describe. That inner voice that had been so vocal with warnings in previous relationships was finally, blissfully silent—one of the clearest relationship intuition signs I’ve ever experienced.
What resolutions have you made about your relationships this year? Do you listen to your relationship intuition signs when it comes to love, or do you tend to follow more logical reasoning? And have you ever experienced something similar—a dream, vision, or feeling that later proved to be surprisingly accurate? I’d love to hear your stories of how the universe may have given you these intuition signs about your own path to love.
Author: Francesca Ropa
Miserable is only a concept. Writes fictions and human interest stories. Days spent in rugged Middle Earth.The Haptic Room is supported by our readers. Our site may contain links to affiliate websites, and if you make a purchase through these links, we receive a commission to support our site.